today i just got my first assignment result, is not good,but is not very bad...when the lecturer going to let us see the assignment point, he said "when i call ur name , the people have to see me". If lecturer say ask u to see him, sure u got the low mark. tat time lecturer keep call the student name, so i am very scared he call my name, finally the lecturer called my name. that time just think"sei lo"aiz...but after i got my assignment paper, i saw my point ,my point not very terible ,is more than half ...still ok la...tat time is quite happy coz never think i can get that mark..i tot i sure got very low mark...haha.....then i see my frens point ,i almost same with them also...not bad....
that subject is very hard for me...actually i can understand when during the lecture time but after that will forgot...this subject is more about comment actually i should like it more...but ...anw....the result what I got is quite surprise for me...is quite happy...
this subject still got 1 more assignment have to submit on this thursday..hope i can finish...coz i really the last minuite person, i always duno how to the assignment until last day sudden i just know simply wirte and finish my assingnment...i have to do well iin assignment 2 also,if not final exam will be very scary and stress...so let start now...zz
Monday, October 12, 2009
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Attitudes that attract Success
this msg is share by keith ,i think keith is the person always challenge people about their thinking...he is really powerful man...is very powerful msg..and i feel this week God keep speak to me how to be a succesful in life..and not just say to me is apeak to whole church of CHC...i think this is the season of wat about chirstian doing...
-so Attitude is you mental position with regard to a fact or a state .
-your attitude is the control center of you life.
-your attitude governs they way you perceive the world and the way the world persives you.
y i say attitude is the control center of your life?how far u can go not just c ur skill or talent ..sometimes is ur good attitude bring u go further...example:let say u r very smart guy ,very talented,but sometimes y this kind of people can get bad result or when during talent competition they also can't do well..is because they r lazy to study lazy practice, sometimes is worse ,they r very proud so they just don wan practice and go to competition..these all is all about bad attitudes..
If u have a good attitude, may b u r not talent ,may b u r not smart ...but u just have a good attitude,so when during exam u just study hard ,arrange ur time nicely, and when during competition, u just practice very very hard . So at the end u just get a good result or win the competition...or may b u r lose in the competition and ur result is very bad, but when u have a good attitude ,u just don give up and work hard and work hard ,at the end sure can get the good result .so attitude is reall realy important..1
4 great attitudes that attract success:
1.humility= be humble not proud, but being also confident. Humble not mean u r very soft ,but u humble u also can be very strong.
2.be positive = problem solver, so when u face the problem or may b u in negative times but if u r positive person ,u will think the way don solve the problem ,wont let problem failed u ,is win the problem. So when face the problem don say i duno or very hard, first u must think how to solve the problem ...u must always think how...HOW!!...
3.Hardworking = just REMEMBER this LAZY is be POOR, work HARD can be RICH...every successful guy is because they work very hard...this is the ONLY ONLY WAY to be the succesful person...sometimes people get smarter and smarter is because they work very hard,not they r genius ...just because WORK HARD!!
4.willingness = willingness is very important,sometimes people are smart ,but y they still failed ,because they don have willingness. They don willing to be humility , don willing to be positve and don willing to work hard..so i think willingness is most important to how to be successful. so willingness is a choice , so if u wan be a willingness person is ur choice......no 1 can force you just by ur choice...
Willingness is more than a feeling ,it is a choice.
When we are unwilling , we compromise.
4 result that willingness produces
1)willingness produces courage
willing people will have the courage to step out from their comfort zone.
so willing will always helpe u be brave , and allow urself to do mistake.
example:let say u like a gal, when u chasing her u will step out the alot of step,u will become very barve to try to make her happy, buy present to her, some people will step out the comfort zone and go to work is because want buy present to her, this is really not easy for some people..but when u like her, u will have willingness , so willing and take alot of brave to u...and etc.
2)willing produces creativity.
so when u have willingness this will produces ur creativity, let say if u have willingness to study , may be u always get bad resuly ,but willingness can produce creativity, so u will change ur style to study,wont keep use the same style to studyand etc, but if u no willingness u just will give alot of excuse,u will say i study d y my my result still so bad, so stright judge urself i am not tat smart , i am study type, i cant study,Anyway all this just a reason when u don have willingness..so dont let u be the exuses person ,keep ur willingness to produce cretivity.
i keep talk about study coz i am 1 of the student now..=p
-but really being creative also means to be original, to be unique and to be authemtic.being creative means you have a imitated.
-being creative mean you have strategy when you willing u will be change .alot of idea will come out....unwilling just will give exuses...
3)willingness produces the extra mile
the first mile represent our duty, and the second represent our love.The first mile is you obedience, the second is willingess. The expression of love can only begin after demands of duty have first been met.
example:let say u people ask you to pack 1 fried rice to him, if u do extra mile may b u add 1 more fried egg for him, another example people ask u to teach him homework, if u take extra mile u not just to help him homework ,u also encourage him u can do well in homework ,give hm more confident, just give more love to him,let him to feel u really is care about him.
4)willingess produces spirit of v0lunteersim.
willingess makes one run instead of walk, skip instead of drag praise instead of mumor , and thankful instead of complaining willingness strengthens the passion for a cause.
there is nothing stronger than the heart of a volunteer
no example ...tired d...slp lo....hehe...
-so Attitude is you mental position with regard to a fact or a state .
-your attitude is the control center of you life.
-your attitude governs they way you perceive the world and the way the world persives you.
y i say attitude is the control center of your life?how far u can go not just c ur skill or talent ..sometimes is ur good attitude bring u go further...example:let say u r very smart guy ,very talented,but sometimes y this kind of people can get bad result or when during talent competition they also can't do well..is because they r lazy to study lazy practice, sometimes is worse ,they r very proud so they just don wan practice and go to competition..these all is all about bad attitudes..
If u have a good attitude, may b u r not talent ,may b u r not smart ...but u just have a good attitude,so when during exam u just study hard ,arrange ur time nicely, and when during competition, u just practice very very hard . So at the end u just get a good result or win the competition...or may b u r lose in the competition and ur result is very bad, but when u have a good attitude ,u just don give up and work hard and work hard ,at the end sure can get the good result .so attitude is reall realy important..1
4 great attitudes that attract success:
1.humility= be humble not proud, but being also confident. Humble not mean u r very soft ,but u humble u also can be very strong.
2.be positive = problem solver, so when u face the problem or may b u in negative times but if u r positive person ,u will think the way don solve the problem ,wont let problem failed u ,is win the problem. So when face the problem don say i duno or very hard, first u must think how to solve the problem ...u must always think how...HOW!!...
3.Hardworking = just REMEMBER this LAZY is be POOR, work HARD can be RICH...every successful guy is because they work very hard...this is the ONLY ONLY WAY to be the succesful person...sometimes people get smarter and smarter is because they work very hard,not they r genius ...just because WORK HARD!!
4.willingness = willingness is very important,sometimes people are smart ,but y they still failed ,because they don have willingness. They don willing to be humility , don willing to be positve and don willing to work hard..so i think willingness is most important to how to be successful. so willingness is a choice , so if u wan be a willingness person is ur choice......no 1 can force you just by ur choice...
Willingness is more than a feeling ,it is a choice.
When we are unwilling , we compromise.
4 result that willingness produces
1)willingness produces courage
willing people will have the courage to step out from their comfort zone.
so willing will always helpe u be brave , and allow urself to do mistake.
example:let say u like a gal, when u chasing her u will step out the alot of step,u will become very barve to try to make her happy, buy present to her, some people will step out the comfort zone and go to work is because want buy present to her, this is really not easy for some people..but when u like her, u will have willingness , so willing and take alot of brave to u...and etc.
2)willing produces creativity.
so when u have willingness this will produces ur creativity, let say if u have willingness to study , may be u always get bad resuly ,but willingness can produce creativity, so u will change ur style to study,wont keep use the same style to studyand etc, but if u no willingness u just will give alot of excuse,u will say i study d y my my result still so bad, so stright judge urself i am not tat smart , i am study type, i cant study,Anyway all this just a reason when u don have willingness..so dont let u be the exuses person ,keep ur willingness to produce cretivity.
i keep talk about study coz i am 1 of the student now..=p
-but really being creative also means to be original, to be unique and to be authemtic.being creative means you have a imitated.
-being creative mean you have strategy when you willing u will be change .alot of idea will come out....unwilling just will give exuses...
3)willingness produces the extra mile
the first mile represent our duty, and the second represent our love.The first mile is you obedience, the second is willingess. The expression of love can only begin after demands of duty have first been met.
example:let say u people ask you to pack 1 fried rice to him, if u do extra mile may b u add 1 more fried egg for him, another example people ask u to teach him homework, if u take extra mile u not just to help him homework ,u also encourage him u can do well in homework ,give hm more confident, just give more love to him,let him to feel u really is care about him.
4)willingess produces spirit of v0lunteersim.
willingess makes one run instead of walk, skip instead of drag praise instead of mumor , and thankful instead of complaining willingness strengthens the passion for a cause.
there is nothing stronger than the heart of a volunteer
no example ...tired d...slp lo....hehe...
To get where you want to go if life , u must start from where you are
This message is share by ABEL ...but when i listen this message tat time i felt i am bless by this message and feel wanna be more successful, and dont want to give up anymore...so i must try evrything i can... i don wan waste my time....hehe...this is the message I really wan to share with u guys but my explaination not very good so i copy this message from my Cell group blog...this message is write by my Cell Leader,jenny...she always say i like to say her very talkative ...speak alot ...actuallly i hope i can speak alot like her, and know how to explain myself , know how to say out wat i wan to tell is so good...coz actually alot of time i duno how to say out the thing i want to say... so every 1 enjoy this message...^^
TO GET WHERE YOU WANT TO GO IN LIFE, YOU MUST START FROM WHERE YOU ARE
(by Abel Teh)
James 1:5-8 5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. 6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. 7 For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; 8 he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways
What is "success"? Success is an illusive (deceptive; misleading; false) misery to a special group called 'lucky'. A survey was conducted between two groups of people : the prisoners and the successful people. When they were asked "What is the definition of success?", these are what their answers:
1. For the prisoners, "Success is the people who are lucky enough to escape from police." or "Success means I'm lucky that I'm not caught up by the police." However,
2. For the successful people, "Success is spelled as HARDWORK". This means, success comes when you work hard! Success has nothing to do with luck.
To be successful in life, to go far in life, you must first start asking yourself, "Where am I now?" Are you in the right track of pursuing your dreams? Or have you been walking in a wrong direction that leads nowhere to your success? Are you happy with what you have now? Are you satisfied with your life?
[List down 3 things that you should change and put an action plan on how you can achieve them!] For example:
1. I want to have healthy body. Action plan: Go to gym, eat more vege and drink at least 8 glasses of water everyday.
2. Score good marks in university. Action plan: Write notes every week after class. Do revision at least 12 hours/ week.
3. ...
And make a decision that the Action Plan must start NOW! Change begins with a DECISION. A decision leads to DEDICATION. And dedications produces DISCIPLINE.
Decisiveness is the quality to bring change! What is the enemy of decisiveness? It is called "Ambivalence". Ambivalence means a simultaneous & contradictory attitudes or feelings toward and object, person, or action. Ambivalence is very dangerous as it causes dreams to become nightmares!
Ambivalence = sin of omission (you know you should have done the right things but you refuse to do so. Read: James 4:17) As such, ambivalence produces procrastination!
To stop the habit of procrastination, we should know why we procrastinate at the very first place.
1. Maybe we think the tasks ahead will be too heavy/ hectic. "I can't take it, later la.. later.. I will do it later.. Just give me another 5mins." or "I will freak out if I have to settle this problem now, give me time.. TOMORROW ok! TOMORROW.. i will give you solutions." But in a blink of eye, it's already one week and still.. the problem has not yet been solved. And you realize, you have more problems than a week ago.
2. Fear of change. "Yer.. if I change this ar.. later how will people look at me?"
3. PURE LAZINESS!!!!
Try to think this: If you room is clean, you will not allow dust to "visit" your table, your mirror or even the floor. BUT.. If you room is dirty, you will let the mess be messier.
So, since we want to be successful in life.. Since we want to go far in life, we should first destroy procrastination which prevents us from doing well in life. Amen? A very easy way to remember..
ABDEFGHI - 9 steps:
Activate your planner: write things down! You need to have a planner. Remember: If you fail to plan, you plan to fail!
Break large task into smaller tasks. One step at a time! Break them and attack them one by one! woohoo!! sounds cool, huh? :)
Create deadlines! The deadline must be realistic. For example: "Jenny must lose 3kg in 14 days." (very realistic, right?). Not realistic deadline: Jenny must lose 3kg in 3years" =.="
Deal with the mess! Untidiness kills creativity. So deal with the mess!!!
Encourage yourself! The best cheerleader is you yourself! Eventhough if everyone in the world say that "you can't do it", but if you believe in yourself and say "i can do it no matter how bad the circumstances are", you will be the winner for sure!
Face your fears! Don't be pessimistic instead be positive! Be optimic!
Goals-revealed. When you've finally solve a problem, celebrate! Reward yourself.Hang on.. Don't give up!! When you're down, don't stop, don't give up.
Hang on... Remember this: things that don't kill you will eventually make you stronger.
Initiate now: Ecc 11:4 says the best time is now! NOW means NOW! Not "soon" or "later". The devil will not tell you there's no heaven. The devil will not tell you there's no hell. The devil will tell you, "There's NO HURRY!" Thus, make a decision to DO IT NOW! Don't be condemned by the devil.
I hope this will be very useful and helpful for all of you. LET'S STOP PROCRASTINATION!!! :) Go back to James 1:5-8, the verse clearly says that we need to ask of God for wisdom when we do not know what to do. And when we ask, we MUST ask with no doubting! Amen? As we want to go far and be successful in our life, we need wisdom! We need wisdom to stop the habit of procrastination. We need wisdom in our time management. We need wisdom to achieve success! To get where you want to go in life, you must start from where you are!
so u all enjoy this message...hope u all enjoy it and learn something from this message..=)
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